integration for Level 2 re Playing with children

I was amazed while watching my daughter in law playing with her second child, age 5.
I realized that she was doing what Mark Hamilton called, “playing with your children.” I had never
had the opportunity to practice playing in that way with my children, but made some feeble attempts
to do what I thought would help them as adults. I can see now how important playing with your
children can be for their future success as value creators.
Since my attention has been focused on most of Mark Hamilton’s heirloom packages, I realize that
I unconsciously underwent some very important life changes. I am now able to “read” people’s minds, at times, (not always) and I do experience, consciously, the euophoria when I am creating values. My follow through seems to end in discouragement, when I attempt to concretize my goals, because I don’t have a male partner to round out my life’s goals. I am wondering if I can accomplish my goals without a partner. Is it something I should be focusing on?